Feb 19 – Why I use Whey’d

The supplement market is swamped with protein powders at moment making it so hard to know which is the best. For many years I have searched for one that ticks all the boxes from an athletic and nutritional point of view. This was until I came across Whey’d. Whey’d not only hits all the boxes nutritionally but has been a great addition to my training.

Aside from being a great product Whey’d are always looking for ways to help support charities, give back to the planet and also source from local farmers to make sure the best quality whey protein is put into their products.

Here is why I believe Whey’d is one of, if not the best whey protein shake on the market at the moment.

 

 

Carbon Neutral – Whey’d offset their carbon footprint by planting the relevant number of trees to counter balance those used in their product production.

One-for-one – For every sachet sold Whey’d give a glass of milk to
a child in poverty

Whey’s use the most sustainable dairy in Europe

All of Whey’d protein is traceable back to farm source

Ethically Sourced – All GMO free, animals are treated like family members by their farmers. Whey’d make regular visits to the farms to make sure this is upheld. Cows under less stress mean better quality milk and products for us.

Whey’d is one of the lowest calories protein shakes in the industry

Whey’d has a lower carbohydrate and sugar content than most other
protein powders making them really good for those trying to
loose weight

Due to Whey’s high protein content it is great for those looking
to gain muscle and improve recovery

Those who are often affected by whey protein products have not
experienced this with Whey’d

Used by professional athletes

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Sep 18 – Emotional Intelligence

What is emotional intelligence?

Emotional intelligence is the ability to know, identify and manage how you and others are feeling. Most people are able to identify how they are feeling but knowing or being able to recognise how others are feeling is not always so easy. It has been suggested that emotional intelligence can be more important than your IQ in helping you to be successful in life and to achieve your goals and happiness. This suggests that you must be able and willing to develop and mature emotionally as you grow older.

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The five categories of emotional intelligence

Self-awareness
Being able to recognise your own emotions as they are happening and knowing how to deal with them. This is said to be one of the most important categories of emotional intelligence and is key to how you are able to grown and mature emotionally. Being self-aware with your emotions means that you are able to tap into how you are really feeling and be 100% honest with yourself. This does not mean just being able to recognise your emotions but also how you can manage them, evaluate them and react to them. There are two elements of self-awareness. Firstly, emotional awareness, how you are able to recognise your own emotions and how they directly affect you and secondly, self-confidence which is your ability to be confident about your self- worth and capabilities.
Self-regulation
None of us has any control of when we experience certain emotions or what they may be but what we can control is how long we let them last for and how we react to them. Looking back over a situation and trying to recognise the good that can come from it or using alleviating techniques, like taking a long walk or meditating, can help to reduce any anxiety, sadness or other emotions about a situation.
So what does self-regulation involve?

  1. Self-control – The ability to manage and handle disruptive impulses
  2. Trustworthiness – Being able to keep honesty and integrity to yourself and also others
  3. Conscientiousness – The ability to be able to take responsibility for your own actions and performance
  4. Adaptability – Being able to handle change and be flexible
  5. Innovation – Being open to new ideas

Motivation
You must be able to motivate yourself with positive and clear goals of what you would like to achieve and when. We all have a predisposition to either a positive or negative attitude. If you have a negative attitude it is not as good as having a positive one but it is not impossible to swap from a negative to positive it just takes some practice and some time.

Motivation is made up of:

  1. Achievement drive – Your own personal drive to achieve excellence and the best that you possibly can and strive for excellence;
  2. Commitment – Being able to align your goals and stick with them;
  3. Initiative – Being able to act and be ready to accept opportunities when presented to you; and
  4. Optimism – Not letting obstacles and setbacks affect you chasing and achieving your goals.

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    Empathy
    Being able to recognise how another person is feeling or how your actions or decisions may affect someone else’s feelings is really important if you want to be successful in your life or career. Being able to show empathy to others will help you to excel.

    Social Skills
    Having good interpersonal skills is so important when you are looking for a successful career and personal life. In a world that is now so full of technology and where we are always connected, being able to talk and communicate with people is even more important than it has ever been. It has been suggested that people nowadays, especially those of the younger generations, are finding communicating with other people more and more challenging. This is a worrying thought. Being able to communicate well with others allows us to be able to influence, lead, inspire, build bonds and work as part of a team.

From the above it is clear that having good emotional intelligence is so important in everyday life, being successful at work, in relationships and friendships. Being able to understand how you and other people are feeling is very important in being able to read, react and deal with situations that life may bring upon you.

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Final Thoughts:

“If your emotional abilities aren’t in hand, if you don’t have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can’t have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far” – Daniel Goleman

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Aug 18 – 15 Questions

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If you said to a friend you have 15 questions ask what you want, what would you ask?

Here is what I got asked!? Why not try this with your friends?!

  1. What did you want to be when you were older? Singer/Musician
  2. Where is your favourite place in the World? Locally Frencham Ponds abroad Africa or Bali – I know that is more than one that is a very hard q.
  3. One song that sums up or resonates the most with you? Dermont Kennedy – Moments passed or Iris – Goo Goo Dolls. Quite a few songs have memories for me. Music is Life!
  4. What one item could you not live without – Nail Varnish I hate my nails not being painted!
  5. Gym wear or Sartorial elegance – Gym wear
  6. Biggest regret? I don’t really have any regrets everything in life is a lesson and you can use it to help make you stronger.
  7. Biggest achievement? Standing out on the Regionals floor for the first time knowing all my hard work and sacrifices had paid off. Reaching the summit of KILI
  8. Perfect WOD? Easy … Diane 21-15-9 HSPU and DL
  9. What super power would you like or super hero would you be? The ability to read or get inside someone’s mind.
  10. What animal would you be? I would be a lion because they watch and take everything in then when they want something they pounce and go get it.
  11. Signature Dish? Erm … I can cook but I don’t do it a lot especially when it is just for me but everyone says my cinnamon and honey sweet potato fries are great!
  12. Bungee Jump, skydive or white- water rafting? Skydive – on my bucket list
  13. Perfect Date? The date doesn’t really matter, it’s the person you are with. Vomit! I really like nice walks, chatting and looking at the stars. I’m a very simple human being!
  14. Favourite film to curl up and watch on the sofa? The Holiday
  15. Funniest thing you have ever done? I’m not really a very funny person….. well not on purpose anyway so no idea here sorry!

What would you have asked?

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Aug 18 – Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself

You were never lost and then found so the person you are today has been shaped and created by the experiences, challenges and things you have gone through in your life and how you reacted to them. Your strength, resilience, maturity and how you treat people.

Throughout life we are always trying to discover who we are, what life really means to us and what we want from it.  What many of us forget is that life is not about “finding yourself but it is about creating yourself”.  

In life we have to figure out and learn what we are capable of achieving, learning, creating, doing and we can only do this by going through rough times, challenges, break-ups etc as they help us to learn, push forward and grow. One of the hardest things to do at these times is to not over analyse, think too deeply into something and hardest of all learn how to move forward from something you may not want to let go of. For me in life, if something doesn’t work, doesn’t happen or causes me pain then it’s not worth going back to.

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Granted this took me a long time to realise and learn but has always been a resonating thought in my head ever since.

I will not call them failures, as in failed relationships, job that didn’t work out, friendships that broke down, competitions you didn’t do well in, because nothing is ever a failure just a lesson, so we will call them challenges. From these challenges we can learn and use the experience to help us to grow and become mentally, physically and even spiritually stronger. We can use these times to help us to learn how we want to live our lives and how we want to move forward.

Life isn’t easy and I doubt it ever will be.

“Sometimes you have to be knocked down lower than you ever have before to be able to stand up taller than you ever have before”

Life isn’t about how many times we get knocked down or how bad it is when we get knocked down but how we get back up and learn from the challenges we have come across, how we can become a better person and how we can grow as a person moving forward.

You may or may not realise it but every choice, decision or experience we go through helps to shape us into who we are and how people see us. While it may not bother you what people think of you we can’t blindly go about life. The bottom line I guess is that it is up to us how we get up from challenges how we move forward and how we react.

If we learn to look at our lives as continuous lessons then we will spend less time focusing on the problems and going back to past challenges and learn to move forward and continue our journey. Every challenge should be embraced. We can find the meaning behind it, learn from it and then move forward using it to help us to grow into a better human being. From challenges come new opportunities and adventures.

My biggest lesson was using challenges as inspiration to help me move forward, focus on my happiness and grow into the person I aspire to be.

 

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May 18 – “Are you really happy or are you just comfortable”

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One of my favourite quotes is “Are you really happy or are you just comfortable”

This quote has resonated a lot with me recently and has been on my mind!

In this day and age it is very easy to live a comfortable life going with the flow because things just work and you don’t have to think too much. Nowadays it is very easy to fall into this mundane life which we believe makes us happy but does it truly? Or is it we are just afraid to take risks? Push ourselves out of our comfort zones or give second chances because we are afraid to get hurt or fail when actually things might just work out even better than you expected?

But what makes us veer away from taking chances and using our brain to block out thoughts, feelings and things that could be great?

Our minds are clever things that help us to protect ourselves when we are not sure what might happen as an end result of a particular action. This is understandable; why would we put ourselves into a position where we might get hurt, might fail or might not achieve? Well why not! Surely when life is so short we should take a chance, push ourselves or even allow a second chance?

In theory this is correct, but our mind as I said before has a great way of shutting things out and using denial or fear to help us to feel better about our choices.

“I will do this because it’s what is for the best” meaning I will not take that risk even if I want to because I might get hurt and this is easier and this is what I believe I should do.

“If I stay in this job or relationship its easier because it just works and it won’t cause me any hassle or pain”. Easy and mundane only stays easy and enjoyable for so long, until it becomes boring, then what? You will stick at it because it works and you missed other chances but you will never truly be happy and always wonder what if?

“I’m not going to try that move at CrossFit because I’ll never be able to do it or I’m scared I may fail”; how will you know if you don’t try?

Denial and de-compartmentalising are wonderful tools and work well for many especially in the short term helping you to become less vulnerable but only for the short term. Denial has a funny way of coming back to a lot of us and biting us on the arse! Denial helps create short-term happiness at the expense of true long-term happiness!

So why do we do this? Why do we allow ourselves to overlook long-term happiness or achievement for the short term? Good question! It takes a really strong person to own up and say “I did something wrong, maybe the timing was not right first time round, I’m going to make myself overcome a fear, put myself in a situation I may not like or even potentially make a fool of myself.”

Feelings can be scary but I strongly believe they should be dealt with as they arise instead of allowing our bodies to disconnect from them and push them to one side as from previous experience they just come back, but even worse!

I am someone who believes in taking risks and doing things even if they are scary or may lead to me being in a vulnerable position or getting hurt, because I always believe life is too short!

I do, however, realise that we are not all the same and people cope differently.  Some people pretend things aren’t happening or just go with the flow, sticking with easy and convenient but I believe this never truly leads to happiness, just settling and taking the easy option!

If you:

Wake up begrudging going to work but carry on because it’s easy

Have someone on your mind

Fear something

Ask yourself if you made the right decision about something

Are currently just going with the flow because it’s easy

Are scared to give second chances at the expense of potentially getting hurt but gaining something great

Are scared to try that new move at the gym

Etc

Then maybe you need to have a think and ask yourself

“Am I really happy or just comfortable? I may be happy now but will this last? Have I made the right decision? Should I be where I am?”

If you are questioning any of the above then my answer to you is maybe you are not happy, just comfortable? In denial? Or just ignoring how you feel deep down inside?

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April 16 – Athlete recovery with Steve Fawcett

Athletes are very good at dedicating themselves to training and following a nutrition plan but many find it really hard to know when to rest and for how long. I managed to catch up with one of the most experienced athletes and coaches in the UK to find out his views on do athletes rest enough? When should they rest and for how long?

Name

Steven Facwett

Occupation

Gym Owner/Coach @ CrossFit JST and Founder/Head Programmer @ JST Compete Programming

Sporting Achievements

7 x Regionals Appearances

2 x CrossFit Games appearances (2015 Individual, 2017 Team)

Favourite Workout

5 Rounds for time:

25 Cal Row

16 C2B Pull ups

9 4” Strict deficit HSPU

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Favourite CrossFit Move

 Split Jerks or Strict HSPU

How many people do you programme for?

 We have a total of 220 athlete following JST Compete Programme. Whether thats competition or individual programmes. I have 8 individual athletes and programme for the main competition programmes

What kind of athletes are they?

 All athletes on the programmes are either CrossFit competitors or aspiring competitors. My individual clients are all regionals/Games level athletes.

Athletes are very good at putting time into training but do you find athletes take enough time to recover

Athletes could recover a lot better. To make it to the top you have to have every area dialled in! Training, nutrition, recovery, lifestyle. Recovery is certainly overlooked in my opinion. There are a lot of expensive time-wasting gadgets too. The most effective way is good nutrition, hydration and light aerobic movement.

(I (Lucy) personally recommend Compex, it aids my recovery 100% – LMCF for discount on any device.

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Do athletes take enough rest days?

Mine do! haha! I think people are getting a lot better at letting go of the stigma that they need to train every day!

Can athletes train all year-round year on year without needing to take a substantial break/rest period?

No

How long should they take off and when?

Dependant on the individual but after a long period of training which usually finishes in competition. I would recommend at least 3 weeks of lower volume/intensity and lower structured training. Exercising and being active is fine but just not “training”

What happens if an athlete does not rest or recover enough?

Best case scenario is they reach a plateau. Worst case is they get injuries or burn out

Do you advise athletes to take a year out or a set period of time off to just relax, not follow structure and enjoy other forms of training, exercise etc

Depending on the athletes and their competition season and goals. At the end of the season they should definitely take time out. The CrossFit season comes around very quick, it can be a very wise move for you longevity to alternate years pushing for team and individual. You see a lot of athletes take a step back for a year and then the year later they are in the best shape of their lives

What are the biggest contributors to athletes burning out/getting adrenal fatigue/resenting training?

Not taking the time off at the right periods and also trying to juggle full time training with a full-time job or other work/lifestyle commitments. It’s a tough balance in CrossFit. Very few athletes get paid to train like a full-time athlete so need to work to get by. There a very few sports around where that’s the case

What are some warning signs?

 Disrupted sleep, demotivation, injuries and niggles for no particular reason, plateau or decrease in performances.

We do not yet know what the long- term effects of training CrossFit are. How do you think an athletes body may look after 7-10 years of pushing their body to the limits every day?

I don’t think any different to any other professional sports person. Some athletes will be in better condition than others and that’s the athletes who have trained smart, had a good coach and listened to them.

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March 18 – What defines who we are as a person?

Everyone will have a different answer to the ‘What defines who we are as a person’  and everyone will be defined in different ways. What I wanted to talk about in this blog is the notion that we are all now too worried about what people think of us and are we too caught up with the way we want ourselves to be defined to the outside World (who probably don’t even care), that we forget who we really are.

 So, what defines who we are?

What job we have?

What we have achieved?

What we have done in our past?

How successful we are?

How people perceive us?

What we wear?

How we look and act?

What car we drive?

How many people follow us on Instagram/Facebook?

 Whilst this is not an extensive list of potential things that may help to define who we are it raises some of the most common and thought-about topics. These are all things that people can be judged for, but do any of these really matter? Does it really matter what car we drive or the clothes we wear or how successful we are? The answer in short is NO! Well not to me anyway.

While I believe that some of the above will always play a part in how people see us and define us even if it is in a very shallow. They should not be the only reasons.

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With the continued growth of social media, I believe the most common and most prominent way people, especially young people, believe they are defined and portrayed is by how they appear on social media, for example Facebook, but especially on Instagram.

For some reason it is now believed that the more followers you have on Instagram the better a human being you are and the more you are liked. While this would appear true as the more followers and ‘friends’ you have the more popular you feel, although this is so superficial as most likely 60% +, if not more, are not really your friends. Surely having real friends that you can communicate with is far more important? This appears untrue these days. 

Recent studies have shown that young people are now getting so wrapped up in trying to portray themselves as the person they would like to be or who they think they should be via their Instagram account that is it having a negative impact on their life.

It is crazy to think that a social media channel like Instagram can have such an impact on young people and how they are perceiving themselves and how others are perceiving them, but why is this happening?

1.       If you do not receive as many likes on a picture as you thought you should or your last one received, or your friends received, this can result in you feeling worthless and like no one is interested in what you are doing or likes you for who you are.

2.       You scroll through hundreds and hundreds of photos wondering why you do not look as great as the person in the photo but what you forget to remember is they probably don’t even look like that either.

3.       People start to question why their life isn’t as perfect as the ‘perfect’ life people portray on their profiles every day forgetting that they only post the highlights, like a big show reel.

These are just a few reasons but they can create a really superficial life which others strive to have which in fact is highly unobtainable and probably is not even like that for those portraying it.

People’s Instagram posts promote a life that is somewhat unreal and is perfect through filters and often posed and presented in a way that they wish you to view it. I guarantee that if you spoke to them in real life it probably is not anything like their real life.

So why do we let ourselves get so caught up in the way we want ourselves to be perceived? Because we want to be able to keep up with the wider community and world and feel we are liked and accepted by everyone. As a nation we like to be accepted and liked by as many people as possible even if they are truly not our friends and just imaginary numbers. This, however, is not healthy and I believe it needs to be addressed.

While it is good for business to have a whole bunch of friends and followers I strongly believe that our Instagram/Facebook pages should reflect who we really are and the ups and downs of life not just the ‘perfect’ parts. This is why when posting on Instagram and Facebook I like to post real and honest posts showing my life as honestly as possible.  I often post videos of fails and days that have not been great when I have trained and also the ups and downs of life. The times I have struggled etc. I believe that it is important to show that everyone has bad days and sometimes we don’t look like we have just walked off a photo shoot.

I strongly feel that we should just be ourselves and If we are liked then that is great and if we are not then fine. You should be proud to be who you are and how you look and what you do. There is no need to look for acceptance or even chase it through promoting yourself how you feel you should to be accepted. Worrying about how people perceive you or what ‘defines’ you can lead to deep inner issues which are not always positive.

Always be yourself and be accepted for who you are! Never let the outside World pressure you into portraying yourself in a way you believe you should. Rather be accepted for being you and who you want to be rather than a person you are not.

 

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